What, exactly, is purpose?
Purpose is to live with an intent. An intention toward creating some result. a gradual building of something.
It just means, you have a project that is large in scope, and is a worthy goal in your eyes to attain.
For years, people would talk about having purpose, but seemingly no one could describe it.
It's just a large project or focused goal. That's it.
So, for example, when I was a kid and got new Lego ideas or had a big build project, it took many hours of focus to see it through to the end result or finished product of the build.
That is purpose. I was hyper focused on the goal and it made all other things unimportant to me and caused them to disappear.
There is a magic in building something. Whatever it is you want to work on building, do that.
Define it however you want as well.
And then work toward it.
Like you could be secretly inspired by Sarah Connor in Terminator, and get excited to build that type of body and end result. You dream of the reality it takes to become that. And you work every day to build that lifestyle that builds that. You see what I mean?
You do this and keep doing this. And adding other cool things to build.
Like I wanna work on acting skills and getting roles. Awesome. Then do that! And have fun doing it. :)
But you have to work every day on it in order to build a lifestyle around that goal so you can attain it.
It doesn't come without rebuilding a lifestyle around it.
Every goal requires building a lifestyle toward it. As it requires lifestyle pillars to attain it properly.
Much like making a blanket from a crochet hook, you have to really keep at it. Design the habit of sitting and crocheting and just making it your go-to habit in near all times and spaces where appropriate.
Momentum is important. It must be the small things changed in every day in order to get that prize result for fun!
Momentum just means you are truly focused and keeping it urgently burningly important in your mind and working hard to create the space opportunities in your lifestyle to attain it.
You must work it. Daily. Period.
That's it.
If you need help realizing what goals you want, I understand. I became that person too. Because people kept saying stuff about purpose and goals blah blah and it confused and dissociated me and they made it all hyped andimportant and it totally destroyed the point of a goal and purpose in me lol.
Because, it is just something you naturally want to desire to do. Just as when you were a kid. You naturally just wanted to reach for your bicycle and go for a ride, or go to your friends’ houses, or create a drawing, or paint, or sew something.
Just do that.
Easy.
If you are still confused, I can help.
Just reach out and we can schedule a coaching call. I am a professional iPEC coach. But more than that title and crap, I know what it is like to feel locked out of this thing called purpose.
You dont have to be any more.
Reach out. And we can talk.